Throughout the years, I have witnessed God;

Reclaim my Identity: In the quiet moments, I found my true reflection in the mirror of Christ. His love etched my identity anew, erasing the scars of doubt, insecurity and any imposter syndrome.
Challenge my value systems: The compass of my heart recalibrated as God questioned my priorities. “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (Matthew 6:21). Intimacy with God has become the most cherished treasure in my life.
Building emotional Architecture: He laboured in the trenches, laying foundations for emotional intelligence. No longer tossed and stirred by my emotions, I harnessed my feelings and wielded them as tools for growth. The goal is not to have emotions as my captors, but that they may became my collaborators.
Purpose Unveiled: The marketplace, His kingdom, my home—each a canvas awaiting purposeful direction. God steered my path and purpose bloomed like wildflowers.
Exploration and Delight: Beside me, God walked as I explored life’s simple pleasures. Fashion whispered stories of self-expression, hobbies painted vivid landscapes, house décor echoed comfort, and food—oh, the flavours!—became a symphony of gratitude. My favourite things and pastimes were brushstrokes on the canvas of my existence.
Taught me financial freedom– God revealed the path to financial freedom through His promises. He imparted wisdom to navigate finances effectively while recognizing God as our provider and sustainer and also that I am simply a steward.

Hey there,I’m Lilian—I AM AN entrepreneur, mom,WIFE WHO QUALIFIED AS A CHARTERED ACCOUNTANT and above all god’s beloved!

In the past few years, I’ve been searching for more. I paused in the midst of life’s hustle and wondered if I was aligned with God’s design for me. For a long time, I had been stuck in the cycle of life, going from one day to the next, one task to another and shadow to shadow. It wasn’t really clear what kingdom I was building.

I set out on a journey of self-discovery, seeking to honor my father by living authentically. I had accumulated many “shells” that distorted and masked the abilities/talents and true nature that God had created in me and for me.

I share my journey on this page, not as a specialist but as a little girl on her father’s lap, relishing the process of pruning, character formation, mind renewal, and correction, all of this embraced and infused with His love and grace.

I’m honoured that you are visiting my page and I pray that as you read about my experiences, God will reveal Himself and speak to you in your areas of need. From financial wisdom to business insights, parenting tips, and spiritual growth, I’ll share practical advice and personal experiences.

Let’s align our lives with God’s purpose, ensuring that we thrive in every area

i’m excited that you’re here!

First Things First…

Are you ready to experience an abundant life? Yes? Same here and I’m here to share my journey with the hope of showing you that it can be done. Join me on my adventure of real fulfilment.

The Core of what I do.

love never fails..

My deepest desire is to see believer’s walk in the knowledge of Christ so that it isn’t merely theoretical; but it becomes profoundly practical. When we walk intimately with Him, our day-to-day life undergoes a radical shift. It’s not about religious rituals; it’s about a vibrant relationship.

I find joy in walking alongside others, especially women, equipping them with emotional resilience, fostering wholeness and making intimacy with God an everyday and every area reality. In this journey, we discover that abundant living isn’t a distant dream—it’s the reality of life with Jesus.

Love, Grace and peace

Ready to start Unshelling? You’re in the right place.

As a Zimbabwean and devoted follower of Christ, my life is filled with the fingerprints of God. There has never been a dull moment from getting married to a Cameroonian man, moving to new countries by myself, setting roots in the UK and starting new businesses. I obtained postgraduate degree in accounting from Rhodes University and membership in the institute of qualified chartered accountants board but that has never limited the direction or how far God has laid my feet.

“I keep always two books in my pocket,one to read and one to write in” Robert Loius Stevenson

I cherish reading as it brings a change in my philosophy and ultimately my life. Now i love to write because it allows me to share that journey.

I relish trying new foods and find solace in cooking. Anticipating God’s unexpected hand in my journey, I seek to share these experiences with others..

Now, I invite others to encounter the same joy and purpose.

My Top loves include:

The presence of God

Streets food, travel with my husband and my kids.

Teaching/Coaching and empowering others. Lots of dancing!

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